The House

I figure it’s about time I got a place of my own. Rather than throw my money away by renting, I’ve decided to step up the plate and be a homeowner. I’ve a good nestegg built up with savings and I think with some budgeting and a steady job, I could live comfortably as a homeowner.
So I have been shopping around on the net and driving around looking for houses. I’ve formulated in my mind a list of things which are a must have for my home:

  • The home must be in Mt. Juliet or Wilson County. Davidson County taxes are just way too high. Plus all my family and friends are in MJ
  • 3 Bedroom, 2 baths. Of course if it had more bedrooms and baths and still fit my price range, it would be a plus.
  • A small yard: small enough to mow with a push mower and get all the yardwork done within an hour or two. I definitely do not have time to worry about a prestine lawn. I’d much rather be worried about more important things.
  • The house should be at the most only 10 years old or less. Newer houses have less maintenance issues. I am definitely not a Home Depot shopper and need to stay away from good fixer-uppers.

Of course there are some good pluses to this home search including:

  • Walk in closets
  • A range with a smooth top. (Easier to clean that way).
  • A bar with the kitchen (not necessarily because I like alcohol. I would just like to have somewhere to put bar stools.
  • A one car garage is good to have. Good place to put lawn equipment. Garages are pretty standard with houses these days.

Not meaning to jump the gun, but I have been looking at furniture just to get an idea of what I’d like. I’ve found it is expensive. Most of the stuff is pretty ugly anyways. I am just not into that high class stuff. Give me a basic sofa and chair and I’d be happy.
I’d need a bedroom suit and a living room suit (sofa, coffee table, and chair). There are a few other amenities which I’d like to have including a big gaudy picture of Elvis over the fireplace. I can dream, can’t I?
I think buying a house will help me to grow more independent and build up more self esteem which I am lacking right now. Too many times, well meaning people tend to live in the shadow of their parents. It’s time for me to step up and step out.

Nashville Radio Wars

During the past few weeks Nashville has had some major changes in formats and DJ’s over the radio dial. Here’s a summary.

  • I like Jack. Oldies 96.3 is no more. The Jack FM concept has come to Nashville. Mostly its a mix of 70s, 80s, and 90s music with alot of variety and no DJs, news, weather, or traffic. Where else could you find Depeche Mode’s Personal Jesus playing back to back with Jewell’s You Were Meant for Me…? I am guessing Jack FM is radio’s answer to XM.
  • With Oldies 96.3 gone, 97.1 which played a mix of 80s and 90s music, is now Oldies 97.1. They brought Coyote McCloud and Cathy Martindale, who were DJs on 96.3. Coyote and Cathy needed to have a home here in Nashville. They are locals (in lieu of bland syndication), and they’re good at what they do.
  • With Coyote and Cathy filling the morning DJ position, Rick and Bubba have no home in Nashville. Rick and Bubba are syndicated DJs based in Birmingham. They usually are Alabama-centric, telling us in-jokes about Alabama sports teams and the like. What do you do when your favorite DJs are off the air? Well you start up a blog for support. And the comments on the blog are funny and sad at the same time. Some gems:
    • ” I am almost in a state of depression since Rick and Bubba have been taken off the air.”
    • “One of the major reasons I retired at Pensacola was that I could listen to Rick and Bubba in the morning.”
    • ” My mornings are completely wrecked now!”
    • “The commute to work is horrible now.”

What has happened is basically Star 97 and Oldies 96.3 traded formats, with the 70s, 80s, and 90s format getting a bit better without DJs and traffic reports. The other positive thing is that it got Rick and Bubba off the air. As one discussion board poster said “Nashville is way too sophisticated for Rick and Bubba.” This is probably why Rick and Bubba never made it to Atlanta. Atlanta doesn’t want them and neither does Nashville.

Valedictorian Has His Diploma Withheld

An Eagleville Valedictorian Abe Stokla had his diploma withheld after making some comments about his school during his graduation speech:
What is the controversy about?

“You have given us the minimum required attention and education to master any station at any McDonald’s anywhere. For that we think you. Of course, I’m only kidding. Eagleville is a fine institute of higher learning, with superb faculty and staff.”

However the audience never heard that part of his speech. School principal Rhonda Holton killed the microphone because it deviated from the speech originally approved by school administrators. She said that it implied that the high school doesn’t offer quality education.
Holton is on some type of power trip. This is a high school graduation, not a speech to the U.N. Rhonda, get off your high horse and welcome back to earth. As a result of your decision more people have heard Stoka’s comments than would have heard it on graduation night. Your decision shows a lack of openmindness and a lack of respect for free speech. His comments were not meant to be derogatory toward the school; it was meant as a joke.
Somehow this reminds me of some dialogue from my favorite movie:

Ed Rooney: I don’t trust this kid any further than I can throw him.
Grace: Well, with your bad knee Ed, you shouldn’t throw anybody… Its true.
Ed Rooney: What is so dangerous about a character like Ferris Bueller is he gives good kids bad ideas.
Grace: Mmm-hmm.
Ed Rooney: Last thing I need at this point in my career is fifteen hundred Ferris Bueller disciples running around these halls. He jeopardizes my ability to effectivley govern this student body.
Grace: Well, makes you look like a [jerk] is what he does, Ed.

Update 5/28/2005:
Eagleville principal: Valedictorian misled: Holton says he promised to leave bad statements out

As Yourself

These scriptures were told over and over to me growing up.
If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles.
Matthew 5:41
..If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.
Matthew 5:39
Its important to remember that Jesus was speaking to an oppressed people under Roman domination. The scriptures above deal with how they should interact with their oppressors. The Jews were a proud people. They felt good about their heritage. They were looking for the Messiah to redeem their people from their earthly oppression. These verses were meant to show a sense of humility and love for one’s enemies.
However too many times those with low self esteem tend to take the above verses to an extreme. You can only go the extra mile so many times and turn your cheek so many times before you break down emotionally.
Above all else is the 2nd greatest command:
‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’
Matthew 22:39
The requirement for loving your neighbor is to love yourself. How can one love their neighbor if they do not love themselves? Having a good image of oneself is in God’s plan.
Too many times I have bent over backwards to please others in order to feel better about myself. The mistake that I was making was that I was trying to be a people pleaser. I felt that I had to be perfect in order for others to like me. Subconsciously others saw this and took full advantage of my willingness to help. I was used. Many times people waited until the last minute to give me things or to plan activities. And I gleefully accepted in order to win their friendship.
God doesn’t want this. God wants me to feel good about myself because I am a unique individual created in the image of God, not because of what I do for others. I should want to do good because of God’s grace, not because I feel like I have something to prove. I shouldn’t feel obligated to help someone just because they request it. The best word for me right now is “no.”

Rudy

The movie Rudy is based on the true story of Daniel “Rudy” Ruettiger whose dream was to play for Notre Dame. Everyone, including his family, friends, and even clergy told him that he’d never do it.
Rudy was small and didn’t have the physical body for a premier football program like Notre Dame. None of his older siblings had gone to college. He had been told that he wasn’t smart enough for college and that he should go to a technical school instead. Yet he overcame obstacles to play his senior year for 27 seconds for Notre Dame. He was carried off the field on the shoulders of his team mates. Since 1975 no other player has been carried off like this at Notre Dame.
One of the more memorable quotes comes from one of Rudy’s mentors, Fortune. He tells Rudy this as he is about ready to quit, after he has made the team, but may be unable to dress for his last game.

You’re 5 foot nothin’, 100 and nothin’, and you have nearly a speck of athletic ability. And you hung in there with the best college football team in the land for 2 years. And you’re gonna walk outta here with a degree from the University of Notre Dame. In this life, you don’t have to prove nothin’ to nobody but yourself.

Sometimes the toughest person to convince is yourself. We tend to put alot of high expectations on ourselves. We get anxious when we don’t meet those expectations in our own minds. Sometimes its best to remember that we don’t have to be perfect in order to accomplish our goals.
In the movie Rudy meet another football player who is disastisfied that he is playing for Notre Dame. He says he would have preferred to play for other teams, but he chose Notre Dame because his father was an All-American there. This player doesn’t even try anymore. He says the coach keeps him on because he is a legacy.
The moral of the above exchange is some people remain ungrateful for their gifts. Rudy would have done anything to play for Notre Dame, yet this other player could care less. Eventually this player says that it was Rudy who convinced him to stick it out his senior year.

Firestarter

Firestarter is a 1984 movie which deals with telekinetic abilities. The storyline involves a government experiment in which 10 participants are given injections of experimental drugs which would give them psychic abilities. Eight of the experiment participants died or committed suicide. Two lone participants, Andy and Victoria, survive.
Victoria’s psychic abilities are never discussed in depth. We only know that she can read Andy’s mind. Andy’s abilities are shown to be extensive, including moving inanimate objects, causing people to go blind, and mind control. Andy and Victoria have a psychic bond and get married and have a child, Charlene “Charlie.” Charlie inherits dramatic psychic abilities from her parents. She is able to start fires, sometimes out of her control, on any objects or persons which she hates. Andy and Victoria try to control their child’s abilities. Their home is filled with fire extinguishers.
Eventually the government becomes wise to this family’s psychic abilities and tries to capture them. Victoria is killed by government agents, sending Andy and Charlie on the run from the agents.
This was Drew Barrymore’s next big role after E.T. Many of her fans no doubt went to see Firestarter thinking it would be another cutesy E.T. movie and instead got a psycholocial thriller. There is nothing cutesy about this movie.
Andy is played by David Keith, who could have easily been a 80s version of Patrick Swayze in mannerisms and speech.
The movie itself could have been developed more. Instead of having a large portion of the movie being Andy and Charlie’s capture by the government, instead it should have been how they escape from the government. It’s a good 80s movie and decently done for its time.

Here in Pleasantville

In the movie, Pleasantville, we see the two main characters in direct contrast with each other. David Wagner, the protagonist, is a shy teenager who is apprehensive about asking a popular girl out. His parents are divorced and he is unhappy in the imperfect world that he lives in. He finds escape in his favorite black and white TV show from the 1950, “Pleasantville.”
By contrast his sister, Jennifer love the world she lives in. She could be considered a “bad girl,” – sexually promisculous smoker. She is concerned about dating the cutest guy in school.
During an argument over control of the TV, Jennifer and David are transported to the black and white TV show world of Pleasantville. Initually they are shocked, but eventually they decide to play along as the TV characters of Mary Sue and Bud.
Pleasantville is a perfect world. The basketball team is undefeated. It never rains. Wives have dinner for their husbands promptly at 6PM. Firemen have no knowledge of fire (for there are no disasters like fire in Pleasantville). A Pleasantville Fireman’s only purpose is to rescue cats from trees. Any problem one may encounter can be solved within a half hour (including commercials breaks).
Interestingly enough there is no interaction with the outside world. Geography classes study the geography of Pleasantville itself, without mentioning where Pleasantville ends. Books contain blank pages, as if to say information from the outside is unimportant or irrelevant.
Mary Sue finds the Pleasantville world unrealistic. She resolves to change the world and teach the characters in the sitcom about how real life is. Bud by contrast realizes that this could turn their world upside down and might not let them get back to the world of reality.
Change occurs. The basketball teams starts loosing. Wives don’t have dinner on the table for their husbands promptly at 6PM. The clouds produce rain. Pleasantville becomes the imperfect world of reality.
The selling point for the audience is the color change in the black and white world. Initually it is subtle: pink bubblegum, a green car at the soda shop; the red cherry on top of a sundae; the red hearts in a card game.
A first the color change in people comes from sexual experiences. One would think the movie is promoting being sexual promiscuity. Instead the movie is promoting change. Color represents seeing the world in a different light. Jennifer/Mary Sue doesn’t become colorized when she has sex, like many of the other characters. Instead she changes when she discovers the world of reading. David/Bud experiences color change when he finally stands up for himself.
The movie deals with alot of other social issues such as racism. When some of the Pleasantville residents turn colors we see “No Coloured” signs in storefront windows. Segregation is seen in the trial of Bud and Bill when the colored people are in the balcony in tribute to “To Kill a Mockingbird.” Censorship is also dealt with. When words start appearing in the books and the citizens start learning about the outside world, the city has a good old fashion book burning reminicent of Nazi Germany.
There is a conversation between Bud and his father near the end of the movie. The father asks his son “What went wrong?” “Nothing,” Bud says. “People change.” This pretty much sums up the moral of the story. Change, no matter how we feel about it, is going to occur. It our duty to make the best of it, and even in some cases embrace it.

Wendy’s vs. McDonald’s

When one thinks of a fast food burger a couple of restaurants come to mind. It is interesting how different McDonald’s and Wendy’s are to each other.
Let’s talk food quality. Rarely if ever do I get a burger from Wendy’s that is not high standards. Juicy. Warm. Excellent.
At McDonald’s the Forrest Gump worldview is in effect as you never know what you might get. I’ve had buns which were stale; burgers with too much or too little ketchup on it. Messy. Employees at McDonald’s might just not care. It is rare to have someone at McDonald’s to make a career of it.
McDonald’s caters primarily to children, and parents who want a fast and easy meal without much cleanup. There is always something on the menu for a picky child. Having a Kid’s Place playground also helps attract children.
Wendy’s has no such playground. Their clientel appears to be mostly adults. Having a salad bar rather than a playground shows the direction Wendy’s is heading.
It is unfortunate that Wendy’s gets to be the #3 or #4 burger restaurant in the US, while the lower quality McDonald’s gets top billing. I recently watched the Biography of McDonald’s Corporation founder, Ray Kroc, on A&E. Kroc was concerned mostly about making a buck, rather than food quality.
I’m getting hungry. I guess I’ll stop by Wendy’s soon. Perhaps you’ll even have a religious experience at Wendy’s.

The BYU Testing Center

I ran across this article in Wikipedia and thought I’d comment on it.
What is the Brigham Young University Testing center?
A center at BYU for the sole purpose of administering tests to students.
Good things about this type of center:

  • Valueable class time is not wasted on a test. The professor doesn’t have to schedule lectured around test scheduling and therefore can continue with the course of study
  • Students have plenty of time to take a test. Many times I have had to rush to get done with a test by the time the allotted time is up. There is no time pressure to take a test

Negative things about this type of center:

  • Potential for long lines (as the article describes). However there is a web cam available for those who’d like to see how long the line is before taking their test.
  • Neutral environment. Many people tend to achieve higher scores on tests when they take it in the room which they learned the material. It was not uncommon during my college experience to visit the classroom afterhours to try to review new material. Sometimes you tend to associate items in the room with items which are on the tests. Having a testing center is somewhat of a neutral environment, which might mean students have increased potential to score lower than in the environment in which they learned the material. However this neutral environment might help measure how well the student has learned the material, and can recite it in any environment.
    There is also a slight potential for a student to have a bad experience in the testing center and therefore associate the center with failure. This of course is merely a psycholocial concern and cannot be alleviated unless the student gains control of their fears themselves.

I think a testing center could potentially be a good idea. I would have liked to have had the option at Lipscomb.

New Parenting Requirement: Speak English

Wilson County Judge Barry Tatum previously ordered a Mexican woman learn English in six months or she would have her 11 year old daughter taken away. Today the judge did not rule on it.
I strongly question Judge Tatum’s position. He may not realize how difficult it is to learn the English language. I suspect he has rarely (or never) been put in a situation where he is a minority English speaker (perhaps another country). Unfortunately this is a common view for many people who have not been exposed to a world view.
Should Americans who have moved to Mexico be forced to learn Spanish or have their children taken away? Why the double standard, Judge Tatum?
I am thankful that I have been exposed to the world. China, El Salvador… Everyday I deal with people from all over the world. I have to see past culture and customs in order to get the most out of international business. It’s only after we are able to view the world as one big global community rather than trying to compare the rest to what we feel the world should be, we can achieve a world view on things.
It is unfortunate that Wilson County is receiving negative press about this. It is rare that Wilson County achieves any National Press, positive or negative. I hope the rest of the nation realizes that the view of Judge Tatum is the minority view. Hopefully most people are versed enough to be respectful of those who are from different cultures, rather than finding ways to take away basic human rights.